Just wanted to toss these chips in the ring. For low side drive,
http://octopart.com/parts/search?q=IPS1031SPbF&js=on
And for high side drive w/ current feed back.
http://octopart.com/parts/search?q=IPS6031&js=on
Some key extras include D2Pak and TO220 packages, so SMT it possible. Also this series can go up to 60 amps high side drive, and 85 amps low side drive, so direct drive of low frequency items like the fuel pump, ect is possible.
As a recap, I think the two key players at this point are VNP20N07 (or VNP5N07) and TIP122.
The VNP's have an Rds around .5 ohms for the 5 amp, and .05 ohms for the 20 amp. The IPS1031 has an Rds around .05 ohms, so low heat dissipation by the drive silicone. At 5 amps that's 1.25 watts, and at 1 amp it's .05 watts. In hold if used as peak and hold, it's around 2.25 watts max. Should allow for peak and hold with minimal heat sink requirements.
The IPS6031 has an Rds of .06, and includes current feed back, as a high side drive. This may be handy for measuring current in the hold state. Any thoughts about doing P&H on the high side?